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The major warning sign that you’ve become “too busy” for sex

Do you live life on autopilot- rushing around, always crazy busy, and rarely stopping to breathe? Is sex the last thing you need to tick off on an already long to-do list at the end of each day? Do you end up exhausted, flopping into bed and trying to get yourself psyched up for one …

Connecting to your sexuality My journey Understanding how your sex drive works

You’re not broken: here’s why we need to change the language about having a “low sex drive”

Step one of embarking on a journey to find your sex drive is to consider whether it’s really lost. A personal story of mine is pretty relevant here. I was talking with my boyfriend recently, and I kept saying I’d “lost” my desire to have sex, and I needed to find it. I also referred …

Body Image and self-esteem Connecting to your sexuality Waking up to pleasure Waking up your body

2 fabulous reasons why looking at your vulva can improve your sex drive.

It’s one of the VERY FIRST things that Emily Nagoski’s “Come As You Are” book (AKA the sex drive bible) recommends. Get to know your pussy. Love your famwa. Get intimate with your vagine. And she’s the expert, so its obviously pretty important. Many of us might’ve done the bathroom squat with a hand mirror when …

Body Image and self-esteem Feminism

Here’s how “horizontal hostility” might be impacting on your sex drive

*positions loudhailer at the ready and dons hard hat* Ladies- we need to talk about horizontal hostility. Wanna know why? Because horizontal hostility is when “members of a targeted group believe, act on, or enforce the dominant system of discrimination and oppression”. Or in other words, when women bitch about the way other women look. …

Finding time for sex/to feel sexy Making time to feel sexy Taking responsibility for your own sexual pleasure

How to practise sexual self care

As it’s #selfcare week, here is a cordial reminder of the importance of sexual self care. No you dirty bugger- it’s not just about wanking (although, that is kinda part of it). Sexual self care is about all increasing your wellness. And specifically your sexual wellness. They say…. It makes sense that if you’re feeling …

Asking for what you want Connecting to your sexuality Improving sex within a relationship Knowing what turns you on Quizzes Tools

Do you know what your erotic blueprint is?

Have you ever heard of an erotic blueprint? No it’s not some kind of weird newfangled STD all the kids are getting. It’s an amazing (and little-known) way of understanding how you like to be turned on. The sexual blueprint quiz Jaiya, an award-winning sexologist, believes that we each have a way we are intrinsically …