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How to find time for sex/to feel sexy How to get sexy without pressure or expectation How your relationship health impacts on desire, and how to improve it Making time for sex Sex and Stress Your mood/well-being and the link to your sex drive

The major warning sign that you’ve become “too busy” for sex

Do you live life on autopilot- rushing around, always crazy busy, and rarely stopping to breathe? Is sex the last thing you need to tick off on an already long to-do list at the end of each day? Do you end up exhausted, flopping into bed and trying to get …

How to be sexually authentic/connect to your sexuality My journey Understanding how your sex drive works

You’re not broken: here’s why we need to change the language about having a “low sex drive”

Step one of embarking on a journey to find your sex drive is to consider whether it’s really lost. A personal story of mine is pretty relevant here. I was talking with my boyfriend recently, and I kept saying I’d “lost” my desire to have sex, and I needed to …

Body Image and self-esteem How to be sexually authentic/connect to your sexuality How to wake up to pleasure/sexuality How to wake up your body to sexuality/pleasure

2 fabulous reasons why looking at your vulva can improve your sex drive.

It’s one of the VERY FIRST things that Emily Nagoski’s “Come As You Are” book (AKA the sex drive bible) recommends. Get to know your pussy. Love your famwa. Get intimate with your vagine. And she’s the expert, so its obviously pretty important. Many of us might’ve done the bathroom squat …

#sexdrivestories How your relationship health impacts on desire, and how to improve it Too little intimacy Understanding how your sex drive works

#sexdrivestories: Are there two sides to my libido?

When I was in the Dead Bedroom Marriage (DBM) I eventually was able to ‘turn-off’ my sex drive. If that is even possible. Yes I still got horny and yes I still masturbated almost daily. But the desire to be with someone was absent. I ‘got off’ simply to fulfill my physical need and I went about my day.

How to ask for what you want (to be sexually assertive) How to be sexually authentic/connect to your sexuality How to find out what turns you on How to have better sex Quizzes Tools

This is the number #1 way to find out your “seduction style”

Have you ever heard of an erotic blueprint? No it’s not some kind of weird newfangled STD all the kids are getting. It’s an amazing (and little-known) way of understanding how you like to be turned on. The sexual blueprint quiz Jaiya, an award-winning sexologist, believes that we each have …