Guest post- taken from “A Kink in the Bedroom” There, I said it: I don’t have sex with my husband. In the past three years, the number of times we’ve had sex could probably be counted on two hands…maybe even one. My therapist says it probably came from a trauma, and while I have no …
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April 2018
Don’t just lie back and think of England…. take responsibility for your pleasure
I don’t know about you, but my sex education in school was terrible! Pleasure was NOT a word that ever passed the lips and wet moustache of my terrifying science teacher. He just wheeled out an old 80s TV on legs and showed us a video of a woman having a baby. My saucer-eyed class …
Do you believe these 3 myths about sex? If so, they could be killing your sex drive
There are some really unhelpful beliefs in society about sex, that might be killing your desire. Do you recognize any of them? Myth One: “Foreplay begins just before having sex” We all know the drill right? Women need longer than men to get warmed up for sex- say about 20 minutes of foreplay- so set your …
Why a pre-breakfast sex request can spell disaster for your libido
Frosties….. shreddies…. sex? For some women, there are few words in the English language that give them more dread than when their partner utters the phrase: “can we have sex tonight?“. Often casually spoken over the sounds of buttering toast and rustling cereal, a pre-breakfast sex request can be a real turn off. Why can this …