#sexdrivestories, Contraceptives, Your physical wellbeing

#sexdrivestories Lost: 1 x Sex Drive – If found please return to Owner

This week’s #sexdrivestories is by the lovely Sensual Delights who writes a very heartfelt post about contraceptives (specifically the Mirena coil) and the impact on her sex drive…. *Guest post* My Sex Drive vs. the Mirena Coil ​So after much procrastinating over whether I should write this post and share a deeply personal as well as… Read More #sexdrivestories Lost: 1 x Sex Drive – If found please return to Owner

Blogging

Losing your desire to have sex is like losing the desire to blog. Here’s how to combat both.

Recently I’ve realised that writing is a little bit like sex. Both are a space for expression- a chance to be creative, passionate, to find our own voice or way of being. Typing and thrusting can have the same urgency, a desire to find the right word, the right touch or position, the best way… Read More Losing your desire to have sex is like losing the desire to blog. Here’s how to combat both.

Relationship patterns and habits

“I’m shit at WANTING to have sex? Great, now lets have a conversation alllllll about it!”

If you’re reading this post, it’s likely that you’ve already communicated with your partner in some way about your low desire. How did you handle it? Hopefully maturely, sensibly, and with lots of communication. If you’re anything like me, however, it will have gone terribly- crying, silence, denial, anger, frustration, sadness. It’s hard talking to… Read More “I’m shit at WANTING to have sex? Great, now lets have a conversation alllllll about it!”

How to discover (or rekindle) your sexual identity, Understanding how your sex drive works

The five thieves of desire

If you’ve been following this blog for a while you’ll know that I’ve experienced issues with my sex drive for nearly three years now. The problem is mainly, being young (31!) but not ever really wanting or feeling bothered about sex. Lacking desire feels like you’ve lost that spark that makes you human. It’s tough,… Read More The five thieves of desire

Food and nutrition, Physical/medical health, Your physical wellbeing

I survived the #Whole30! Here’s how I did it, and how it changed me for the better.

I’m one of those people who can’t stop at just one bit of chocolate. How I envy the discipline of those people that just take an elegant mouse-like nibble, a normal plate portion, go out and “just have one”. But me? I’m an absolute in-or-out, all guns blazing, stuff my face, just come out of… Read More I survived the #Whole30! Here’s how I did it, and how it changed me for the better.

Relationship patterns and habits, Warmth or affection between partners

The top 50 signs of being taken for granted in a relationship

According to the Telegraph, these are the top 50 signs that you take each other for granted in a relationship. Do you recognise any of these? The top 50 signs of being taken for granted Opting to sleep rather than having sex 2. Lack of ‘date nights’ 3. You forget to say “I love you”… Read More The top 50 signs of being taken for granted in a relationship

#sexdrivestories, Hormones, Your physical wellbeing

#sexdrivestories OH SHIT, WHERE DID MY SEX DRIVE GO?

This is an extract of a great post by Miss Jezebella (check out her blog, it’s fab) on having polycystic ovarian syndrome (PCOS) and the impact on her sex drive. *Guest post* I’ve got Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome (PCOS, for some background see this post). I’ve only had an official diagnosis of PCOS for 4 months now.… Read More #sexdrivestories OH SHIT, WHERE DID MY SEX DRIVE GO?