When you think you are struggling with a low sex drive, all of your attention and focus tends to be on the times you don’t feel like having sex. Which means you focus on whats going wrong, not whats right. Tracking what turns you on, and what feels good, is a great place to start… Read More What turns you on?
The amazing blogger our kinky adventures wrote about the idea that there are two types of sex drive (emotional and physical) on another post under #sexdrivestories recently. After reading it, it hit me that my libido also works in two ways beyond what she has described. And I couldn’t help but wonder where does desire come… Read More The two origins of desire.
I’ve often felt to blame for having a low sex drive. I always worry that there’s something medically wrong with me. Psychologically wrong. Morally wrong. But, ever since I found out what my sexual blueprint is, I realised that there’s so much more to the issue than I ever realised. And, what if it’s partly about… Read More Here’s how finding out my sexual blueprint helped me find a new language to improve my sex drive.