How to reduce stress/fix a busy life and re-prioritize sex, Making time to feel sexy

Toss aside your old, holey knickers and make way for an amazing new you!

We’ve all got them. The lurkers at the back of our closets. The last-to-be-picked, laundry day style, whip it out when you’ve got nothing else type of things. I’m talking about bad pants. You know what I mean. The comfort pants. The period pants with suspect stains on them. The fun Christmas pants with the… Read More Toss aside your old, holey knickers and make way for an amazing new you!

How to discover (or rekindle) your sexual identity, How to reduce stress/fix a busy life and re-prioritize sex, Making time to feel sexy

Why writing an “unsexy” list is the smart secret to feeling sexy!

When I first started out researching my flagging sex drive, I spent HOURS trying to work out “how to feel sexy”. I was tits deep in Cosmo, Red, Elite Daily and Bustle trying to figure out just what other women do to feel sexy. I kept wondering blankly- what makes me feel sexy? And all… Read More Why writing an “unsexy” list is the smart secret to feeling sexy!

How to reduce stress/fix a busy life and re-prioritize sex, Making time to feel sexy

Sexiness is ALL about how you feel and not about how you look.

Yesterday I happened to look round into a mirror, and felt horror at what I saw. I noticed all my bumps, lumps and flaws, and I thought- how can someone who looks like me ever be sexy? And if I don’t feel sexy, how will I ever feel like having sex?  Your thoughts and feelings… Read More Sexiness is ALL about how you feel and not about how you look.

Making time to feel sexy

Why you should practise sexual self care (and no- it’s not as rude as it sounds!)

As it’s #selfcare week, I wanted to cordially remind you of the importance of sexual self care. No you dirty bugger- it’s not just about wanking (although, that is kinda part of it). Well, if it’s not about wanking, what is it? Sexual self care is about all increasing your wellness. So particularly when you’re… Read More Why you should practise sexual self care (and no- it’s not as rude as it sounds!)