Although there are many things that can take away our desire for sex, not feeling clean is one that we don’t talk about much. Poor personal hygiene is something that many of us experience- perhaps more often than we’d like to admit. Much as we’d like to imagine ourselves as fresh as a daisy, we can all… Read More Could having a shower help boost your sex drive?
This week’s #sexdrivestories is by the lovely Sensual Delights who writes a very heartfelt post about contraceptives (specifically the Mirena coil) and the impact on her sex drive…. *Guest post* My Sex Drive vs. the Mirena Coil So after much procrastinating over whether I should write this post and share a deeply personal as well as… Read More #sexdrivestories Lost: 1 x Sex Drive – If found please return to Owner
I’m one of those people who can’t stop at just one bit of chocolate. How I envy the discipline of those people that just take an elegant mouse-like nibble, a normal plate portion, go out and “just have one”. But me? I’m an absolute in-or-out, all guns blazing, stuff my face, just come out of… Read More I survived the #Whole30! Here’s how I did it, and how it changed me for the better.
This is an extract of a great post by Miss Jezebella (check out her blog, it’s fab) on having polycystic ovarian syndrome (PCOS) and the impact on her sex drive. *Guest post* I’ve got Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome (PCOS, for some background see this post). I’ve only had an official diagnosis of PCOS for 4 months now.… Read More #sexdrivestories OH SHIT, WHERE DID MY SEX DRIVE GO?
From previous posts you’ll know that I’m not an “exercise person”. In fact, I’m far from it. But as a result of understanding more about why we exercise (hint: literally outrunning stress) I’ve begun running! Why running? Our physical and emotional well-being is so tied to our sexual wellbeing that, well, they’re basically the same thing. Exercise… Read More Running for lazy bitches: why it’s good for a slow libido
I recently posted about realising I have female performance anxiety (FPA). It was never something I thought would apply to me. Isn’t it only blokes not being able to get hard??! However, since researching more about the issue, I found this Bustle article which really brought to life the impact FPA has on desire. Read on to… Read More Female performance anxiety and desire
So, clearly thats a headline that I never expected to write! But, I mean, why the hell not? A post about sex and Star Wars is one you want to read, right? This post was inspired by a recent evening when I was in bed trying to get in the mood to have sex. Despite… Read More Sex, anxiety and Star Wars: how to use the force to stay present
Warning: this does rely on having a partner who will pleasure you in return! I know you might not feel like having sex (that’s why you’re here, right?), so I’m sure watching paint dry seems more appealing than giving a blowie… but hear me out first. Our sex drives differ hugely from person to person.… Read More Four reasons why you should focus on pleasuring your partner first if you’ve got a low sex drive
For some people (the chosen ones) caffeine does wonders. It helps boost mood, energy levels, productivity, for some fuckers it even boosts their sex drive. But sadly (cue sad violin music) for others, caffeine is a total bitch, and has links to a decreased sex drive. This is because… It can increase anxiety: Caffeine can… Read More I gave up coffee to see if it had an impact on my sex drive. Here’s what I found….
Back in July of this year I brought along an old friend to my 30th birthday weekend celebrations. To everyone else, she was a stranger but to me I knew her intimately. Anxiety. She shadowed me closer than ever that weekend, and when I came home in floods of tears and exhausted, I knew I… Read More 6 tips to manage anxiety and increase your sex drive