I’ve been blogging for a while now- since October last year, and I’ve learned so much about blogging since then. And about sex. And about me. But I’ve also learned a lot about the internet. And I’ve stuffed my boots full of articles on how to blog, blogging 101, 50 ways to blog better, how to write a blog in 10 days, how to win followers and influence armchair warriors. And I’ve decided… it’s exhausting. Although there is so much to be said for expert opinions, learning from the best and using other’s mistakes to help you grow yourself. It’s can also be all consuming and a little soul destroying trying…
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Six tips to get turned on if you’re a “slow burner”…
Many women (about 70%) have a more “slow burn” approach to having sex. I’ve written a whole post about it here, but in a nutshell if that’s you, you might find that quite often you lack the desire to have sex until after you’ve been warmed up a bit through kissing, touching and foreplay. And that’s totally OK- it’s most of the women in the world that feel like this! I’ve been there, and found that often I had to “just do it”- aka begin foreplay/sex- when I felt a bit cold, and enjoyment would come after. Through doing this, I found some tried and tested tips and tricks below to help…
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5 TV shows that’ll give you the fanny gallops
A quick and easy way of getting sex back on your agenda when you have a low sex drive is to watch a TV show featuring lots of sex. That’ll revive your vagina in no time. Here’s my top 5 faves: #1: Orange is the New Black: Sex behind bars is the hottest thing I’ve seen in a long time. And Ruby Rose… enough said. #2: Game of Thrones Slightly controversial…? So if you ignore the gratuitous sexual violence, there’s so many scenes to give you the horn. This is my personal favourite: #3: Black Sails I had pirate and wench fantasies for weeks after watching this. It’s the prequel to…
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Sexpert advice to help keep your sex life warm and efficient this winter
A sexual winter doesn’t have to mean a cold bed, ongoing breakdowns or replacement part(ner)s- there’s a lot you can do yourself to keep yourself and your desire warm during a cold spell.
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Hello world!
Sex blogger, shouter about all things to do with having a low sex drive, queen of the avocados, mother of dragons and creator of the #sexdrivestories campaign.