Initiation and control, Relationship patterns and habits

The dread of the pre-breakfast sex request

Frosties….. shreddies…. sex? It might just be me, but I find my partners pre-brekkie requests for sex that evening- often casually spoken over the sounds of buttering toast and rustling cereal- a real turn off. There are few words in the English language that give me more dread than when he utters the phrase: “can… Read More The dread of the pre-breakfast sex request

Relationship patterns and habits

“I’m shit at WANTING to have sex? Great, now lets have a conversation alllllll about it!”

If you’re reading this post, it’s likely that you’ve already communicated with your partner in some way about your low desire. How did you handle it? Hopefully maturely, sensibly, and with lots of communication. If you’re anything like me, however, it will have gone terribly- crying, silence, denial, anger, frustration, sadness. It’s hard talking to… Read More “I’m shit at WANTING to have sex? Great, now lets have a conversation alllllll about it!”

Relationship patterns and habits, Warmth or affection between partners

The top 50 signs of being taken for granted in a relationship

According to the Telegraph, these are the top 50 signs that you take each other for granted in a relationship. Do you recognise any of these? The top 50 signs of being taken for granted Opting to sleep rather than having sex 2. Lack of ‘date nights’ 3. You forget to say “I love you”… Read More The top 50 signs of being taken for granted in a relationship