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How to find out what turns you on How to have better sex How to take control of your sex life/get back your sexual agency How your relationship health impacts on desire, and how to improve it Too much intimacy

Is it really “low desire”, or just low desire for the sex that you’re having?- Dr Lori Brotto

The narrative around low sex drives tends to focus on the woman that’s broken- rather than considering the sex they’re having.  And solutions to a low libido sometimes emphasise having MORE sex. But lets face it, if sex doesn’t feel good- there’s very little reason to want to do it! …

How to have better sex How to take control of your sex life/get back your sexual agency How to wake up to pleasure/sexuality How to wake up your body to sexuality/pleasure Issues with the sex you are (or were) having​ Too little intimacy

How a “pussy massage” can save your sex drive….

Layla Martin, an acclaimed sexuality coach and tantra expert, calls the pussy massage a way to experience “exquisite pleasure and healing”. Before you go to running to the hills at the sound of tantra and pussies and voodoo, give this particular exercise a chance because it can do wonders for …

How to have better sex How to take control of your sex life/get back your sexual agency How your relationship health impacts on desire, and how to improve it Issues with the sex you are (or were) having​

How to have more sex by stopping having sex!?

If we don’t fancy having sex, it can get to the point where it’s “a big deal”. We can start associating sexual pressure even with the smallest acts of affection by our partners. It can feel like every single hug, kiss, brush past or shuffle on the sofa has an …

Anxiety How to have better sex How to take control of your sex life/get back your sexual agency Issues with the sex you are (or were) having​ Pain or discomfort during sex Sex and Stress Your mood/well-being and the link to your sex drive Your physical health and the link to your sex drive

Are you caught in a sexual avoidance cycle?

 Sometimes we get stuck into patterns and habits around sex that are hard to see, and even harder to break. An incredibly common one is what Jessa Zimmerman calls the “sexual avoidance cycle”. This is how desire is impacted in the longer term by the quality of the sex that …

How to find time for sex/to feel sexy How to take control of your sex life/get back your sexual agency How your relationship health impacts on desire, and how to improve it Making time for sex Sex and Stress Your mood/well-being and the link to your sex drive

The major warning sign that you’ve become “too busy” for sex

Do you live life on autopilot- rushing around, always crazy busy, and rarely stopping to breathe? Is sex the last thing you need to tick off on an already long to-do list at the end of each day? Do you end up exhausted, flopping into bed and trying to get …