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How to get sexy without pressure or expectation How to have better sex How to wake up to pleasure/sexuality How to wake up your body to sexuality/pleasure Issues with the sex you are (or were) having​ Too little intimacy

Try a “pussy massage” when you want to connect but don’t feel like sex….

Layla Martin, an acclaimed sexuality coach and tantra expert, calls the pussy massage a way to experience “exquisite pleasure and healing”. Before you go to running to the hills at the sound of tantra and pussies and voodoo, give this particular exercise a chance because it can do wonders for …

How to have better sex How your relationship health impacts on desire, and how to improve it My journey Too little intimacy

How to stop resenting your partner so that you actually want to have sex with them again!

“Resentment is the persistent feeling that you’re being treated unfairly – not getting due respect, appreciation, affection, help, apology, consideration, praise, or reward.”-Steven Sosny Unresolved resentment we carry towards our partners can have a MAJOR impact on our desire, and yet it’s one we talk about very little. Resentment closes down …

How your relationship health impacts on desire, and how to improve it Quizzes Too little intimacy Tools

How the 5 Love Languages can help you communicate whats missing in your relationship

Do you know how you give and receive love? There are apparently five main ways we do so in our relationships. These are known as the Five Love Languages, developed by Gary Chapman. And they can seriously improve your relationship AND your sex life. Now, you might think- how can …

How to ask for what you want (to be sexually assertive) How your relationship health impacts on desire, and how to improve it Too little intimacy

5 tips on how to talk to your partner about a mismatch in desire

If you’re reading this post, it’s likely that you’ve already communicated with your partner in some way about a mismatch in desire. How did you handle it? Hopefully maturely, sensibly, and with lots of communication. If you’re anything like me, however, it will have gone terribly- crying, silence, denial, anger, …

How your relationship health impacts on desire, and how to improve it Too little intimacy

Do you recognise any of these 50 warning signs that you take each other for granted?

Is the romance dead? Feeling undervalued can have a big impact on your desire. We all want to feel special, appreciated, loved. And if this is lacking, and the effort has faded from your relationship, it can affect how much you fancy having sex. According to the Telegraph, these are …

Anxiety How to have better sex How to wake up to pleasure/sexuality Learn how to stay present and enjoy sex Sex and Stress Too little intimacy Your mood/well-being and the link to your sex drive

Here’s why you can’t allow yourself to be vunerable in bed

“In sex, you need to let yourself go… to the point of foolishness”- Sexology (film) Sex is about allowing yourself to be vulnerable. Surrendering, and releasing control. Being pleasured and finding pleasure. It’s about having tousled hair, wild eyes and an open heart. And yet, losing ourselves within sex can …

#sexdrivestories How your relationship health impacts on desire, and how to improve it Too little intimacy Understanding how your sex drive works

#sexdrivestories: Are there two sides to my libido?

When I was in the Dead Bedroom Marriage (DBM) I eventually was able to ‘turn-off’ my sex drive. If that is even possible. Yes I still got horny and yes I still masturbated almost daily. But the desire to be with someone was absent. I ‘got off’ simply to fulfill my physical need and I went about my day.