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How to be sexually authentic/connect to your sexuality Understanding how your sex drive works

Is your sex drive a problem? Here’s a new way to think about it

“Dead bedroom, sexless marriage, low libido, lack of desire.” We’ve got lots of names to describe what happens when we stop wanting sex. And according to science, this is a common phenomenon- about 30–40% of all women have at some point experienced a loss of interest in sex for at least a …

How to be sexually authentic/connect to your sexuality How to have better sex Learn how to stay present and enjoy sex Understanding how your sex drive works

Six tips to get turned on quickly for those with responsive desire

Many women (about 70%) have a more “slow burn” approach to having sex. If that’s you, you might find that quite often you lack the desire to have sex until after you’ve been warmed up a bit through kissing, touching and foreplay. In other words, you need to start having …

How to be sexually authentic/connect to your sexuality My journey Understanding how your sex drive works

You’re not broken: here’s why we need to change the language about having a “low sex drive”

Step one of embarking on a journey to find your sex drive is to consider whether it’s really lost. A personal story of mine is pretty relevant here. I was talking with my boyfriend recently, and I kept saying I’d “lost” my desire to have sex, and I needed to …

#sexdrivestories How your relationship health impacts on desire, and how to improve it Too little intimacy Understanding how your sex drive works

#sexdrivestories: Are there two sides to my libido?

When I was in the Dead Bedroom Marriage (DBM) I eventually was able to ‘turn-off’ my sex drive. If that is even possible. Yes I still got horny and yes I still masturbated almost daily. But the desire to be with someone was absent. I ‘got off’ simply to fulfill my physical need and I went about my day.