How to reduce stress/fix a busy life and re-prioritize sex, Making time for sex, My journey, Stress, Your mental/emotional wellbeing

Stress killed my sex drive. Here’s how I got it back…

Once upon a time there was a girl who lived on a diet of coffee, adrenaline and busyness. She worked in a somewhat un-fairy-tale-esque high pressured job in London, studied for an MA part-time and lived in a shabby shared flat in the East End. That girl was me. And unlike in the movies where… Read More Stress killed my sex drive. Here’s how I got it back…

Anxiety, Staying present during sex/foreplay, Stress, Your ability to stay present

“In sex, you need to let yourself go… to the point of foolishness”.

After watching a film called Sexology (which I’d thoroughly recommend despite the cheese) I realised that a HUGE part of sex is about letting go, relaxing, and just enjoying. One of the women in the film states: “In sex, you need to let yourself go… to the point of foolishness”. This resonated with me so deeply. It’s about… Read More “In sex, you need to let yourself go… to the point of foolishness”.