Building a community, How to discover (or rekindle) your sexual identity

Don’t just lie back and think of England…. take responsibility for your pleasure

I don’t know about you, but my sex education in school was terrible! Pleasure was NOT a word that ever passed the lips and wet moustache of my terrifying science teacher. He just wheeled out an old 80s TV on legs and showed us a video of a woman having a baby. My saucer-eyed class… Read More Don’t just lie back and think of England…. take responsibility for your pleasure

How to discover (or rekindle) your sexual identity, Knowing what turns you on, Understanding how your sex drive works

The two origins of desire.

The amazing blogger our kinky adventures wrote about the idea that there are two types of sex drive (emotional and physical) on another post under #sexdrivestories recently. After reading it, it hit me that my libido also works in two ways beyond what she has described. And I couldn’t help but wonder where does desire come… Read More The two origins of desire.