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2. The art of sexual self-empowerment 4. *Sex* you are (or were) having and your sex drive

There are #9 ways we give away our power during sex- here’s what to do to get it back.

“Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about power.” – Oscar Wilde When you’ve lost your libido, sex can feel a completely disempowering experience. Far from the sexually empowered femme fatales we see in films, flicking their hair and calling the shots, instead we’re scurrying to bed …

2. The art of sexual self-empowerment 3. Relationships and your sex drive 4. *Sex* you are (or were) having and your sex drive

The magic formula for igniting your desire for when sex just isn’t satisfying

Is it really “low desire”, or just low desire for the sex that you’re having?- Dr Lori Brotto When we talk about having a low sex drive, we tends to focus on the woman that’s “broken”. We assume there is something wrong with her- rather than considering the sex she is …

2. The art of sexual self-empowerment 4. *Sex* you are (or were) having and your sex drive

Try a “pussy massage” when you want to connect but don’t feel like sex….

Layla Martin, an acclaimed sexuality coach and tantra expert, calls the pussy massage a way to experience “exquisite pleasure and healing”. Before you go to running to the hills at the sound of tantra and pussies and voodoo, give this particular exercise a chance because it can do wonders for …

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#13 tips on how to lose control during sex for people who struggle to let go

It can be incredibly difficult to feel completely relaxed when having sex. Whether that’s because of distracting thoughts or fear of judgement from our partners, actually being ourselves and feeling free in bed seems almost impossible. Below are 13 tried and tested ways to help you feel more relaxed and …

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How to stop resenting your partner so that you actually want to have sex with them again!

“Resentment is the persistent feeling that you’re being treated unfairly – not getting due respect, appreciation, affection, help, apology, consideration, praise, or reward.”-Steven Sosny Unresolved resentment we carry towards our partners can have a MAJOR impact on our desire, and yet it’s one we talk about very little. Resentment closes down …

3. Relationships and your sex drive 4. *Sex* you are (or were) having and your sex drive

What is the “Coolidge Effect” and why it might be putting the deep freeze on your hot sex plans.

There is a very stubborn misconception that exists around sex in long term relationships. That good sex will “just happen”. And that if you need to work at it, your relationship or you have somehow failed. However, if you’re finding yourself feeling like the sex has got a little “meh”, …

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A fear of intimacy: are we more afraid of being sexually wild the closer we get to a partner?

Do you know Layla Martin? If you don’t already, you should. She’s an amazing American sex therapist that writes and vlogs about sexual empowerment. And her latest video, “7 Ways to re-ignite passion in a low sex relationship” is a great resource for those of us struggling with our desire. …

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No more”star-fishing” in bed- start doing this instead

Do you know what a starfish is? No, I don’t mean this inoffensive sea creature: I mean the term “starfish” to refer to a woman in bed. The Urban Dictionary definition states that a Starfish is: A female sexual partner who remains ‘unmoved’ during lovemaking, physically non-responsive (like a ….). OR, even …

3. Relationships and your sex drive 4. *Sex* you are (or were) having and your sex drive

Why a pre-breakfast sex request can spell disaster for your libido

Frosties….. shreddies…. sex? For some women, there are few words in the English language that give them more dread than when their partner utters the phrase: “can we have sex tonight?“. Often casually spoken over the sounds of buttering toast and rustling cereal, a pre-breakfast sex request can be a real …