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Anxiety Feminism How to be sexually authentic/connect to your sexuality Your mood/well-being and the link to your sex drive

No more”star-fishing” in bed- start doing this instead

Do you know what a starfish is? No, I don’t mean this inoffensive sea creature: I mean the term “starfish” to refer to a woman in bed. The Urban Dictionary definition states that a Starfish is: A female sexual partner who remains ‘unmoved’ during lovemaking, physically non-responsive (like a ….). OR, even …

Anxiety How to get sexy without pressure or expectation How to have better sex Issues with the sex you are (or were) having​ Pain or discomfort during sex Sex and Stress Your mood/well-being and the link to your sex drive Your physical health and the link to your sex drive

Are you caught in a sexual avoidance cycle?

 Sometimes we get stuck into patterns and habits around sex that are hard to see, and even harder to break. An incredibly common one is what Jessa Zimmerman calls the “sexual avoidance cycle”. This is how desire is impacted in the longer term by the quality of the sex that …

Anxiety How to be sexually authentic/connect to your sexuality Learn how to stay present and enjoy sex Your mood/well-being and the link to your sex drive

8 ways that anxiety closes down desire

Whether we’re worried about life generally, or if the thoughts just extend to getting down and diiirty, anxiety can wreak havoc with our sex drive. In fact, being anxious is the literal opposite to being turned on, relaxed and experiencing pleasure. Knowing more about how anxiety affects us, as well …

Anxiety How to wake up to pleasure/sexuality Learn how to stay present and enjoy sex Your mood/well-being and the link to your sex drive

4 reasons why you should focus on pleasuring your partner first if you get a bit anxious during sex

Warning: this does rely on having a partner who will pleasure you in return! I know you might not feel like having sex (that’s why you’re here, right?), so I’m sure watching paint dry seems more appealing than giving a blowie… but hear me out first. Our sex drives differ …

Anxiety How to have better sex Your mood/well-being and the link to your sex drive Your physical health and the link to your sex drive

The magic of lube if you’re having a “dry spell”

NEWS FLASH. Lube is for everyone because sometimes we ALL STRUGGLE TO GET WET. There are tons of reasons why it can be hard for women to get aroused, ranging from: anxiety feeling tired being dehydrated as part of the menopause And many more. Often we think lube is only …