Multi-tasking and desire Dr Lori Brotto in her book “Better Sex Through Mindfulness” puts “non-arousal” (AKA not being able to get fully in the mood) down to three things because of how these states of being make it hard to focus on the present. Two are covered on the site already- …
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A fear of intimacy: are we more afraid of being sexually wild the closer we get to a partner?
Do you know Layla Martin? If you don’t already, you should. She’s an amazing American sex therapist that writes and vlogs about sexual empowerment. And her latest video, “7 Ways to re-ignite passion in a low sex relationship” is a great resource for those of us struggling with our desire. …
Here’s why you can’t allow yourself to be vunerable in bed
“In sex, you need to let yourself go… to the point of foolishness”- Sexology (film) Sex is about allowing yourself to be vulnerable. Surrendering, and releasing control. Being pleasured and finding pleasure. It’s about having tousled hair, wild eyes and an open heart. And yet, losing ourselves within sex can …