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1. The art of sexual self-empowerment 2. Mood, mindset and desire 4. Sex and desire Feminism

No more”star-fishing” in bed- start doing this instead

Do you know what a starfish is? No, I don’t mean this inoffensive sea creature: I mean the term “starfish” to refer to a woman in bed. The Urban Dictionary definition states that a Starfish is: A female sexual partner who remains ‘unmoved’ during lovemaking, physically non-responsive (like a ….). OR, even …

1. The art of sexual self-empowerment Understanding how your sex drive works

What does it mean to be “aroused”, and the link between arousal and desire

So, this blog post is on arousal. You might know by now that for some women desire for sex may come *after* arousal (if you didn’t know this, read here). Therefore, knowing what arousal is, and the physical sensations and changes that happen to our bodies, is crucial for understanding more about …

1. The art of sexual self-empowerment 2. Mood, mindset and desire 4. Sex and desire

Here’s why you can’t allow yourself to be vunerable in bed

“In sex, you need to let yourself go… to the point of foolishness”- Sexology (film) Sex is about allowing yourself to be vulnerable. Surrendering, and releasing control. Being pleasured and finding pleasure. It’s about having tousled hair, wild eyes and an open heart. And yet, losing ourselves within sex can …

1. The art of sexual self-empowerment Understanding how your sex drive works

Understanding desire part three: the problem with “diagnosing” a low sex drive…

“Dead bedroom, sexless marriage, low libido, lack of desire.” We’ve got lots of names to describe what happens when we stop wanting sex. And according to science, this is a common phenomenon- about 30–40% of all women have at some point experienced a loss of interest in sex for at least a …